"I really feel duped…I regret that phone call [to CNN’s Larry King Live on 11 January to defend as true the million little lies of author James Frey]….I made a mistake and I left the impression that the truth does not matter and I am deeply sorry about that. That is not what I believe."
That’s how Oprah apologised on her show yesterday: to her viewers and the millions of people who bought James Frey’s best seller - A Million Little Pieces - based on her literary edict. (I had this show TiVoed. And, instead of watching Catherine and her team on CSI Las Vegas last night - one of only 2 hours of entertainment television I deem worthy of my time each week [the other is 24 ], I watched Oprah. Because there's nothing I would not do for you - my dear reader!)
At any rate, I appreciate how difficult and embarrassing this episode was for Oprah. But she has now reclaimed a large measure of the respect I once had for her.
But, I’m still a little bothered. Because the show came across as little more than the futile attempt by an indignant and frustrated mother to discipline a problem child. I’m sorry but getting Frey to tell the truth seems about as likely as drawing blood from a stone.
Oprah interrogated him about the people, events and circumstances in his book for all she’s worth. And I got the distinct impression that she could barely contain her contempt for Frey; not only for exploiting her so comprehensively but also for showing so little comprehension for what he has done and for the pain he has caused.
And when she asked if he perpetrated this notorious literary fraud “to make a better book or make him a better person”, Frey offered his now patented demurrer - “I think it’s probably both” and conceded pathetically that:
"…being tougher than I was, badder than I was as a "coping mechanism."
No shit!
But to her credit, Oprah summed up her apology (and this group therapy session, which I suspect will make it the most watched show of her career) with this more gallant concession:
“To everyone who has challenged me on this issue of truth [like me], you are absolutely right [but] the inspiration the book brought to so many people had clouded my judgment.”
Nonetheless, I am constrained to challenge Oprah further about the consequences of her monumental lapse in judgment. Because, although “the truth is liberating”, I wonder what consequences she will be made to bear.
(Incidentally, for Frey, yesterday’s show was probably just a great promotional opportunity to sell another million copies of his book. And, yes, people will buy it just because it’s such a terrific scandal. However, I really couldn’t care any less about him.)
I got a palpable sense from watching though that Oprah has been deeply affected by being so “duped.” Indeed, her defensiveness in this regard may have accounted for the fact that this preternaturally empathetic woman never bothered to ask the (still) obviously-troubled Frey if he plans to finally get the therapy and treatment he so desperately needs!
As for consequences, perhaps offering a charitable gift in the amount equivalent to what Frey has made off this book would help. But I have to think that making Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel's "Night" an instant bestseller last week - after announcing it as her next Oprah book selection - has great redemptive value….
Note: There can be no more convincing evidence that Frey remains a conniving, unrepentant and mendacious sociopath than when Oprah revealed - towards the end of the show – his pathetic attempt to lay a guilt trip on her by suggesting that if there was a gun backstage, he’d go and blow his brains out. Well, if Oprah were any less a person, she might have replied: “Actually, there is….”
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